Author Archives: Mr. Hko (Writer and Coach)

*YOU CAN’T ESCAPE YOUR DEEDS* A lot of people in this world are in their current dispositions or situations in life due to disappointment, betrayal, wickedness, or deceit they suffered or are suffering from the unthoughtful actions of others. What makes the pain excruciating, is that, those who cause such pains used to be theContinue reading “YOU CAN’T ESCAPE YOUR DEEDS”

Patience and Silence are some of the most powerful ways of dealing with complex situations of life.When “Patience and Silence” are mentioned, surprisingly, the wrong intent and power are conveyed, even by some mentors and counsellors, who often send across to the mentee or client that these two elements (Patience and Silence) basically involve “completeContinue reading “THE NEGLECTED TRUTH ABOUT PATIENCE AND SILENCE”

“A village couple sat under a big fig tree one fine afternoon, chattering at the comfort of their home. The woman said, ” we seriously need a househelp and preferably a male.” The man, with a long face replied, ” That’s ridiculous, what happened to all those female househelps!? “. The argument went on andContinue reading “A TALE OF OUR IMAGINATION”

Fear, insecurity, jealousy and uncontrolled anger are serious symptoms of the effects of deep wounds we develop during the course of our life. So many of us have been seriously betrayed, back-bited, disappointed and exploited by people whom we extremely trusted. Once, upon a time, you used to be so loving, understanding, and caring. WhatContinue reading “HEALING THE WOUNDS”

Striving excessively, sacrificing the very life itself to get somewhere in life is by far the most pitiful situation a man could be in, in life. He is from nowhere, so where possibly is he going? Nowhere.You just happen from the earth and you vanish into the earth. That is why it is believed thatContinue reading “A JOURNEY TO NOWHERE”

You might have studied so many propounded theories that humans’ needs are unlimited, and that, the more we get, the more we purge blood and sweat to get more and more.Better, still, you know this for a fact, because you are human too and you realize always that, nothing seems to give you absolute pleasure,Continue reading “THE SAD MAN IN US”

We are programmed subconsciously (partly due to the spirit of competition and self-centeredness) to feel that the base is broad, and made up of the mass and those with sprouting aspiration, newbies, surbodibates, the dependents, novice, mediocres and so on and so forth, while the very top is very narrow and reserved for the best,Continue reading “THE CONE (PYRAMID) OF SUCCESS”

Time is not our friend; “it has never been on our side”, it can’t be bribed, persuaded or compromised. It is a judge (effect) of every sort of actions and inactions of every creature crawling, walking or flying in the universe – Time is the spirit of ‘Karma’. Time is so impatient that it doesContinue reading “TIME IS RUTHLESS”

– Couple (Marriage or Courtship) Approach (Yet applicable in diverse dispensation of life) – “For a fact, Listening is the only magic, which solves problems without actions.”Solid relationships over centuries have been built due to effective Listening. However, majority/several others too, have been wrecked by dint of poor Listening; those relationships or conversations lacked “theContinue reading “DISCOVER THE MYSTRY (MAGIC) OF LISTENING”

“Life is difficult, Life is not fair, Life is wicked, Life is painful; Life is this and Life is that.” These and many more about Life that people grumble about, which causes anxieties and deep sorrow are basically as a result of their memory. People are busily battling problems, which are only a delusion ofContinue reading “OUR SUFFERING IS OUR MEMORY”