The Life – Mr. Hko

CAN LONG-DISTANT RELATIONSHIPS WORK?

Long distance relationships could be best and the ‘purest’ forms of relationships and they can work, only if we attain this level of enlightenment:

We have been pscyhed by society, that reflects in our pursuit of fulfilment in relationship with another, that without sex or sexual-bondings, there is no actual relationship. Married couples or Potential mates attribute the very success of their relationship to physical-sexual engagements, which makes each of them more or less a leech and a beggar for their own pleasures. This form of relationship limits the individual to explore deep within, to activate the true pleasures within himself/herself. With this, long distance relationships have become almost impossible – No sex, almost means gradual dissolution of relationships. Even with couples staying together, they have crowned sex as the pinnacle of their union, so a decline in it, inevitably means loss of love, loss of affection, and total disinterest – a total shutdown of joy in the relationship.

it is indespensable to search and activate the pleasures found within us, so that we can live meanignfully with others, without physical engagements. If we continue to make sexual or physical based engagements the basis of our relationship, then we lose consciousness; consciousness of our inner-levels of pleasure or pleasantness. In fact, if we consciously accumulate semen within, we accumulate an intense energy that simmers into the brains, to activate different dimensions of energies of the brain to actualise its full functionalities.

Remember, anytime you become reliant on another for pleasure, you do everything, including the unethicals and impurities of your soul, just to get this physical sexual pleasure or any kind of pleasure. Why struggle and sap your energies just to give the keys of your own pleasure to others, while you can brew intense pleasure and fuilfilment within yourself?
If we actualize intense pleasure within ourselves, any form of reletionship we have with another becomes a result of sincere love, not out of needs to be satisfied. With this, all kinds of relationshhips (near or distant) could blossom; All kinds of pleasures outside of your body becomes ‘infantile’, so you strive to create consciosness for the most significant pleasures and pleasantness found within you, perhaps more ecstactic than sexual pleasures.

Mr. Hko (Writer and Coach)
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Everything in this vast cosmos is a ‘cellular’ composition of sounds (vibrations). Sound is the ‘activeness’ of everything. The whole universe exists based on certain dimensions of Vibrations made possible by the creator.
The Writer is not referring to music or any other literal reverberation or sound or keys (notes).

Sound is the Vibration of life in everything. Without sound (vibrations), a creation ceases to exist. These Vibrations also create different dimensions of sensations, that become the basis of transmission between the Physical and the Spiritual dispensations.

So, there are sounds (vibrations) in everything: sounds of life, sounds of joy, sounds of hate, sounds of love, sounds of riches, sounds of poverty, sounds of sorrow, and even sounds of death. Each sound connotes certain dimensions of Vibrations that sparks ‘activeness (force)’ in that particular phenomenon.

The Sounds (Vibrations of life) are connected to our instincts, intuitions, visions, gestures, attitudes, actions and inactions, letter or sound messages and inward consciences. These connections also enhance experiences of our inner-universe with the outside universe. When the Vibrations of these two universe are in tune, manifestation of whatever physical or Spiritual becomes very easy and profound. We might even do less physically, if our vibrations are rightly set and balanced to achieve specific results of other sounds (vibrations) of life to our benefits.

Each day as you wake up, you have to set the whole being in certain Vibrations that are in consonance with that of the universe, regarding specific sounds (vibrations) of life. Your daily vibrations, may influence (repel or attract) the ‘activeness’ of success or failure in that day. You need to keep full and consistent vibrations of the being, to attract certain dimensions of sounds, say sounds of joy, or sounds of riches, etc.

To keep full positive vibrations (sounds) of the being depends on each individual. You need to keenly pay attention to the “connections” (as listed earlier)_ of these sounds and maintain that momentum of vibrations.

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‘DEFINING’ GOALS – THE DANGERS.

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Together, not by the authority or experience or wisdom of the Writer, we examine the dangers of defining goals in life and if goals are ultimately necessary in life, and how defined and specified goals can cause enormous injuries to people, and other innocent victims of those ambitious ones.

If you have a sprouting teenager, young adult, or any other, (perhaps you) who have “vowed” to achieve or do this or that at a specific (defined) time or period, with so much ‘fire in their eyes’, then you should be worried and notice this:

A depth of truth about life is that, there has been a profound distortion of what it means to be successful and how one has to view life holistically. That distorted picture created in front of us, wires our whole being to tow a certain (accepted) path.
One of these dangerous paths is goals and how meeting a goal in life makes you successful and complete.

This Path, is first of all, purely individualistic and never take into consideration the impact it may have on others, situations and even oneself. It is not surprising to hear, especially young men and women, say that they would want to get rich at a certain age, build at a certain age, have children, marry and so many other defined and specified goals

Seriously, such ambition, become very ‘dangerous’ to the bearers and society at large. Invariably, what this means is that “by hook or by crook, I must, say have a child or be rich at age 23. That is a defined goal and obviously very foolish, aside being dangerous. Why? Because naturally, logically, and even religiously, we are aware that we don’t have absolute visions of incidents of our (future) life. That is why sometimes to be too hopeful, too confident or too daring is foolishness. A little Vulnerability, Hopelessness and Doubts in our life makes a big difference for our growth and well-being.

Further, such ambitious people can as well kill, corrupt, covert, deviate, and do any other thing or blood-and-sweat demanding sacrifices in order to achieve those “defined and specified goals” – In fact, such ones are the ones society should beware of. Those ones might also risk their very well-being by trading so much to achieve ‘vanity’, and some end up shattering their lives in the event of failures.

It is an apparent truth, and a wake up call to really ‘conscientize’ ourselves and especially our young ones not to have any defined goals in life. Most often, those defined goals become too big steps – almost an illusory fantasy.

Teach them to take simple steps in life and leave room for eventualities. Above all, let them understand what true success and real goal of every life is – that is, to blossom with compassion, love, joy and happiness for oneself and for humanity – With this, they create a physical, mental and Spiritual harmony with their inner-being.

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POEM : THE PATHLESS PATH

POET : Mr.Hko

From the unknown to the unknown, actuating a serious mockery of the Imagination and a misery of all efforts; efforts
and adventure inevitably plunged into eternal misadventure.

The artist produces not a work of art
but shreds itself into an infinite works of art, making the works of art an artist, but the artist not works of art.

A path, neither clear nor dark, the travellers have no idea, yet they perilously travel.
‘A safe peril’, they say,
making their movement an illusion of faith and hope, and a desolate of wit and might.

Mr. Hko (Writer and Coach)

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There is an internal conflict within you, which makes you so inadequate and worthless. This has also, made you accumulated superficial perceptions about people and situations. This conflict, is fundermentally the consequence of societal (family, culture, religion, etc) impressions against the inner-self; it prevents you from inquiring into the deep things of life.

Most external conflicts we have with others, are usually as a result of a spark of a society-influenced- internal-conflict.

To live with ‘what is’ completely, without, dictations from the insanity and propaganda of what society prescribes or expects, implies no conflict whatsoever. Therefore, if this wrenching internal conflict is resolved, that is, to unlearn everything of society, and inquire deeply within oneself, and to explore the truth about everything, then there is no future as transforming what is, into something else, beforehand stipulated by god-knows- who-or-what!

We must be seriously interested in inquiring deeply into, and gathering pure intellegence about ourselves, others and situations. This makes us less prone to all sort of manipulations and brings tranquility deep within us.

Mr. Hko (Writer and Coach)

WHEN TO TRUNCATE (END) A RELATIONSHIP

The so-called ‘Red Flags’ of relationships aren’t necessarily signs for outright truncation of a relationship. After all, it’s very relative in terms of its impacts on the receiving partners of any relationship.

Red-Flags just expose to you what you have to Observe and Communicate, not what to Contend with; you can’t Contend with Red-flags. As a weakness of the partner, It is a way of telling prospective partners that,” Hey, Observe and Communicate to them!”

Therefore, there can’t be a healthy decision for courtship or marriage if the full effect of Observation and Communication is missing.
Simply, you can’t possibly be with someone you can’t objectively ‘observe and communicate’ freely with, about important things of your decision to be together, possibly forever.

After a keen and consultative Observation and effective Communication, then you deeply examine your energies and strengths, to realize whether or not you can “tolerate” those weaknesses (Red-Flags), with the strengths of those partners as consolations. If relationship counselors refuse to introduce dynamism into their counselling, then a prospective couple would always focus and look out for weaknesses in others rather than in themselves. This would also set standards, which might never be met, because every facet of life, including courtship or marriage, involves dynamics and constant change of circumstances. Change always starts and ends with the one who wants the change.

Thus far, above Love, when any weakness (Red Flad) exist in prospective partners they remember:

1. Keen Observation of those weaknesses to ascertain its full force on the success of their union.
2. Effective Communication to spell out all doubts and concerns.

If these two are not met, then such a relationship should be truncated immediately.

If they are met, then weaknesses (Red-flags) of prospective partners will diminish, in the face of focus placed on all other wonderful traits and terrific possibilities of our partner. Superior to this, be mindful of your own “Red-flags”.

Mr. Hko (Writer and Coach)
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MENTAL FILTERING

Most of our actions and inactions are inadvertently the results of what enters the brains. Beware of what you hear, watch, taste, feel, or think. The brain or mental is not just that wobbly mass in your head. Our whole body is our brain or mental. Each cell in the entire body is capable of “thinking and storing” just like the ‘brain’, perhaps in different dimensions of stimuli and capacity and experience.

Therefore, we need to be careful of what our entire body experience. Just like filtering food or water to get the finest product, the ‘entire brain’ should always be filtered of toxic conversations, scenes, feels and other forms of experiences.

Do not entertain anything that would confuse, adulterate or tarnish the image of your character, principles and persona in life. Some of the things we experienced work on us subtly and are taken up by our subconscious mind, on which we may act, perhaps foolishly, which becomes lethal to our physical, emotional and spiritual well-being.
Constantly filter the brains (memory and Imagination) of any form of toxics to pave ways for a healthy life.

Mr. HKO (Writer and Coach)
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– Food For Thought –

I think Money was invented, among other reasons, by man in an attempt to eliminate “the survival of the fittest syndrome” among them (humans) as social animals, unlike as it (survival of the fittest) prevails among animals in the wild. So, money becomes the direct or indirect “target” for survival and sustenance by man, instead of ‘crushing (feeding on) each other and looting their booties for a living’.

Survival of the social animal (man) has since been primarily, Money.
Unfortunately, however, this intent has rather backfired!

Ironically, this has rather become a carefully calculated massacre (killing) among the social animals even more than in the case of wild animals killing one another directly for food – for survival.

Even worse, what polishes us, as humans from the rest of the animals such as: Compassion, Love, Kindness, Faithfulness, Trust and so on, have gradually been compromised, in sometimes, a genuine attempt to make Money (especially, enough of it) for sustenance and ‘survival’; Greed, has become the order of the day! Suddenly, we have changed from being social animals to wild animals, because we can do anything for it without second thoughts about others.

Again, I think, man should make Money, but all what defines and polishes us, and makes us distinct as social animals must be safeguarded; namely: Compassion, Kindness, Faithfulness, Trust, Love, Care, ad infinitum.

Eventually, its (the Money) attainment won’t involve all that stress and agony and sometimes killing. Can we even look through and share, and make it easily obtainable, knowing very well our sustenance, survival and very life, have been programed directly or indirectly to depend on it?
Could this even ever be possible? If the larger society of social animals (world leaders, politicians, among others) prove adamant or perhaps this article doesn’t reach them, would you reading consider and implement it with the cleanest of conscience for the survival of all around you? Would you share this Post to others?

– Food For Thought –

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🔴 NOTE TO THE READER

“This Uniquely Insightful and Life-changing piece, and all others alike, are exclusively the artistic creation and intellectual property of the author.”

• Mr. Hko (Writer, Coach and Philosopher)
• Est, 2010 –

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It is sheer futility and a waste of time to rage (fight) against all the negative fleshly tendencies and emotions just to attain Spirituality and Maturity. It is like literally cutting-short completely all life’s processes the body must go through – this would mean torture, rather than gowth. For example, you can’t suppress the brain from inviting wrong thoughts or your emotions from flaring (into say, anger) or your sex faculties from functioning – that would mean you are lifeless!
You can’t rage with the body, as you might have been made to think. So you hear counsels such as: do not entertain negative thoughts; avoid anger; make sure your ear doesn’t commit sacrilege of hearing sex (profane) talks, and so on.  _You only come to the realization that, the more you rage against (suppress) them, the more you are drawn to them. Yes?_

Spirituality is attained by _stepping out of the body_.  With this, the body is allowed to fully function without raging against it. “The only thing is that, during the body function, you are not present to witness its excesses to get influenced, so to dawn on you to act upon them”

Essentially, it means you step out from the body to a state (place) of Consciousness, of which you can still survive without paying attention to the drama of the body.

_Consciousness comes with Knowledge and goes beyond just awareness. It involves deliberately finding peace amidst the drama of the body._

When this Peace is found and you stay in it, then you don’t want to ever partake or pay attention to the confusion, drama and noise of the body. You just don’t want to stay in it; You step out – That’s Spirituality and Maturity.

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THE ULTIMATE SURGICAL OPERATION OF LIFE
(Performed on the Conjoined (Siamese) twin ; Memory and Imagination)

📝Mr. HKO delves into the dynamics and mechanics of the Memory and Imagination, using medical parallels and imageries for a profound understanding.

Any Surgical Procedure of any sort, lies on the verge of Life or Death, yet, it becomes necessary to salvage our very life.

This is what you should know about life. Whether you will succeed or fail, be happy or not, be courageous or fret, blossom or fare badly, among other ‘influential’ factors and dimensions of existence, largely depend on an extremely crucial, yet difficult surgical procedure you ought to subject your psychological framework and whole mental body to.

“Metaphorically, who we used to be, lives too long to meet and interfere with who we wanted/want to become – so, we don’t become.”

These generations (who we used to be and who we wanted/want to become) are the summation of a man’s entire life. They (the generations) are like the Siamese twins. They are called; Memory and Imagination. As statistically and medically proven, it is deadly for these twins (Siamese) to remain conjoined, since the condition drastically reduces thier lifespan or survival on earth. So, most often, an operation is imperative to separate them, so that they may live longer than as it were.
Now, there are several possibilities with regard to this operation – Both babies might die, Both might survive, One might die, One might survive. Hence, the outcome of such lethal procedure of separation is really unpredictable! Notwithstanding, it’s crucial for the operations to be performed.

A similar surgical procedure is indespensable for our entire existence. At any point in time of our life, our Memories always get attached to our Imaginations. Our past total experiences or personality always get conjoined to our present and future prospects, and sometimes, just like the conjoined twins, our life can be very threatened and brief; a total misery.

Clarity and focus are so essential for our success and joy, but most people are experiencing conjoined situations of everything in their life, which makes them miserable and lost (with diffused direction). They experience conjoined emotions, conjoined perceptions, conjoined intelligence, conjoined knowledge, conjoined experience, conjoined faith, conjoined spirituality, ad infinitum.

As already indicated, an operation is the way out to liberation and to clear the path.

The operation must be done to separate, at all cost, our Memories from our Imaginations. As it were in the case with the twins, if both survives, then the Memory could comfortably be ushered to its place for at least fond reminiscents and tips of valuable historical happenings of our life. Otherwise, if one (of the twin) is to die, then our Memories should starve and die, while our Imaginations should always be strengthened, fed and live for a successful life. During this Psychological and Mental-body restructuring (surgical operation), our Imaginations should be the target of rescue, come what may, of the procedure.

After a successful procedure, through constant meditation and focus on our Imaginations of what best can be made of the present and future, we would realize that our visions, judgements, decisions and intuitions will become elucidated (clear) and focused. There would be zero or less distractions from the now detached half of the twin (the Memory). Only by this, can we become innovative, strong, focused and happy. We always will look forward to a brighter and even greater possibilities of life against the Memories we might have had of people and situations, which are often insubstantial and energy-draining!

So, always remember that, our life can be best if we always make conscious of, rescue, and enjoy all the great things and goals of the present and future, that is, by empowering and rescuing our Imaginations.

Mr. Hko (Writer and Coach)
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🔴 Note To The Reader:

“This Uniquely Insightful and Life-changing piece, and all others alike, are exclusively the artistic creation and intellectual property of the author.”

• Mr. Hko (Writer, Coach and Philosopher)