Author Archives: Mr. Hko (Writer and Coach)

*HOW DO YOU VIEW “CONTROL” ?* _“Life is not all about freedom; to be Free is sometimes a snare to death”_ – Mr. Hko (Writer and Coach) For most of us, there is always a derogatory and a squalid attachment to the word “Control” and sometimes any attempt by anyone or any situation to control us,Continue reading “HOW DO YOU VIEW “CONTROL”?”

“Have you ever wondered how our physical eyes would be useless without light? We may have physical eyes yet blind because of the absence of light. Our eyes and light are typical allegories of situations of life in terms of function. Superficially, our eyes cannot see without light. Connotatively, our visions, clear judgement, decisions, imaginations,Continue reading “THE EYES (VISION) AND LIGHT (KNOWLEDGE)”

Motivation is simply an incentive, or a reason, given to assure or encourage someone to do something willingly. Motivation is good, but over-reliance of it would even mean you need motivation to rise up from bed or to live. To a larger extent, motivation is overrated and more or less suppresses “the powerful-and-intrinsic-step-up-mechanisms” humans areContinue reading “MOTIVATION – HOW BADLY DO YOU CRAVE FOR IT?”

So many people get baffled each day as to Why the people they so cherish and love behave so mean and unfavorable towards them, regardless of the immense efforts they put in the relationships just to see it thrive. They tend to feel exhausted and frustrated or even depressed about the whole thing.I just learnedContinue reading “WHY IS THE EFFORT TO FIX OR UNDERSTAND SOMEONE SO FOOLISH AND FUTILE?”

THE ESSENCE OF HUMILITY “… come to think of it, man is placed in an already prepared and predetermined space and dimensions of an endless cosmos. He hasn’t been here before, and doesn’t Know even the composition of a mere ant. How then could he think himself bigger or better or wiser of an unknownContinue reading “THE ESSENCE OF HUMILITY”

WHAT ACTUALLY IS PEACE OF MIND? “It is not uncommon to hear or see a lot of people say they want to or strive to have Peace of Mind. Everyone wants it, and it has become more or less a goal of life. So, they completely shun anyone or any situation that conflicts with theirContinue reading “WHAT REALLY IS PEACE OF MIND?”

*HOW POWERFUL ARE YOU?* – Remember that, God in his own wisdom made us (our souls) completely sufficient. “An annex to our souls are the sun, the moon, trees and the entire expanse, which serve us bountifully. They are not outside of our souls, but an extension of our souls” One of the greatest redemptions,Continue reading “HOW POWERFUL ARE YOU?”

Poem:  “Everything is Beautiful”. Poet:  Mr. Hko (Writer and Coach) Everything is beautiful. This place, this thing, this person, this situation, is beautiful. Everything is beautiful. The quality and beauty of our reality is nothing but the quality and beauty of our thoughts and judgements. If our thoughts are beautiful, even about the ugliest thing,Continue reading “EVERYTHING IS BEAUTIFUL”

LOVE’S MESSAGE TO MARRIAGE Have you found someone you Love, this is what you should know about Love before you step into marriage.Right from infancy, we feel and are also subtly taught and oriented to veer our very souls to what we love, and so we have or yearn to have engagements with everything weContinue reading “LOVE’S MESSAGE TO MARRIAGE”

*HOW DANGEROUS ARE  JUDGING AND BLAMING?* _“We are all effects and consequences, but shrouded in good or evil. Be gentle on yourself and others; you don’t cause anything, neither does anyone”_ Mr. Hko (Writer and Coach) We are all pathetically (helplessly) disposed to all circumstances of this life. It is quite simple to grasp theContinue reading “HOW DANGEROUS ARE JUDGING AND BLAMING?”