CAN LONG-DISTANT RELATIONSHIPS WORK?
Long distance relationships could be best and the ‘purest’ forms of relationships and they can work, only if we attain this level of enlightenment:
We have been pscyhed by society, that reflects in our pursuit of fulfilment in relationship with another, that without sex or sexual-bondings, there is no actual relationship. Married couples or Potential mates attribute the very success of their relationship to physical-sexual engagements, which makes each of them more or less a leech and a beggar for their own pleasures. This form of relationship limits the individual to explore deep within, to activate the true pleasures within himself/herself. With this, long distance relationships have become almost impossible – No sex, almost means gradual dissolution of relationships. Even with couples staying together, they have crowned sex as the pinnacle of their union, so a decline in it, inevitably means loss of love, loss of affection, and total disinterest – a total shutdown of joy in the relationship.
it is indespensable to search and activate the pleasures found within us, so that we can live meanignfully with others, without physical engagements. If we continue to make sexual or physical based engagements the basis of our relationship, then we lose consciousness; consciousness of our inner-levels of pleasure or pleasantness. In fact, if we consciously accumulate semen within, we accumulate an intense energy that simmers into the brains, to activate different dimensions of energies of the brain to actualise its full functionalities.
Remember, anytime you become reliant on another for pleasure, you do everything, including the unethicals and impurities of your soul, just to get this physical sexual pleasure or any kind of pleasure. Why struggle and sap your energies just to give the keys of your own pleasure to others, while you can brew intense pleasure and fuilfilment within yourself?
If we actualize intense pleasure within ourselves, any form of reletionship we have with another becomes a result of sincere love, not out of needs to be satisfied. With this, all kinds of relationshhips (near or distant) could blossom; All kinds of pleasures outside of your body becomes ‘infantile’, so you strive to create consciosness for the most significant pleasures and pleasantness found within you, perhaps more ecstactic than sexual pleasures.
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