*HOW DO YOU VIEW “CONTROL” ?*
_“Life is not all about freedom; to be Free is sometimes a snare to death”_
– Mr. Hko (Writer and Coach)
For most of us, there is always a derogatory and a squalid attachment to the word “Control” and sometimes any attempt by anyone or any situation to control us, make us defensively wild and resistant. From married couples to children (adolescents), the case is true of them. The worse part of it is when they view genuine and purposeful control as taunting or evil. They would rather want to do things anyhow or anyway that pleases their desires. Such unrestrained and uncontrolled desires can actual lead to future hurts and regrets. This is not to insinuate that one still have to be under demeaning, abusive or deadly forms of control. You should however, not break-free from situations (people) just because it (they) control(s) you, and make you uncomfortable, especially if it’s a “guided control” meant to make your path and life clear and straight. As humans, some amount of control, restriction or denial is very essential for our well-being (physical, mental, emotional and spiritual). _*The whole universe is under control. It is ‘sphererically bound’ with a lot of limiting (controlling) forces like the gravitation. We can’t live without bounds in any dispensation or stage we might find ourselves. That would be catastrophic and unnatural.*_
No matter the heights we have reached in life, it is very essential you create your own “purposeful controls” or live within the controls prescribed by those who love you or more experienced than you, to protect your entire well being. Especially in the case of youngsters, the guidances and control from parents or adults are of great importance to actually make them wise and thrive well in life. The scripture itself is full of “control mechanisms” of emotions, desires and life in general, so things may augur well with us.
_“Directed and Purposeful control lead to real freedom, whereas unrestricted freedom leads to Hurts and Regrets_
We all need measures of guided control and restrictions in all aspects of our lives. In case you live “freely and wildly” it’s high time you tamed (controlled) your lifestyle with principles and other controlling mechanisms (from others) in the form of advice or warnings so that you don’t get eluded with the (unseen) hurtful arrows of life”
No matter who you’ve come to be, never outgrow advice, learning or purposeful control meant to shape your life for the best.
Mr. HKO (Writer and Coach)
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