HOW DANGEROUS ARE JUDGING AND BLAMING?

*HOW DANGEROUS ARE  JUDGING AND BLAMING?*

_“We are all effects and consequences, but shrouded in good or evil. Be gentle on yourself and others; you don’t cause anything, neither does anyone”_ Mr. Hko (Writer and Coach)

We are all pathetically (helplessly) disposed to all circumstances of this life. It is quite simple to grasp the absolute sense of this assertion when you appreciate the fact that you couldn’t choose  to be in a family of the opulence or the poor, sicle-cell family or a healthy one; physically tall or vertically challenged (short) ones, black or white race and so on. No one decides, we are all the effects or consequence of predetermined combinations we are actually oblivious of!
It is by full consciousness we endeavor to change the trajectory of our situations in life with pain and much effort (physically, emotionally and spiritually)

In the light of this, we can conveniently apply wisdom in all our dealings with others and even our own selves. *Judging and Blaming ourselves or others for the things that happen to us is very unfortunate and could make us depressed for the worse.* Judging and Blaming blind our paths to progress, because all our reasoning and perceptive powers are busy looking for others to blame instead of focusing on the way forward. *_Even if it is obvious that someone is directly connected to our predicaments or fall, just know that they naturally can’t escape their deeds and more importantly, they are just effects or consequencies; they are not actually the cause of such woes._*

In one of Shakespeare’s classicals, “Midsummer Night’s Dream”, a spirit creature named Oberon, through his servant, Puck affects the love between Lysander and Hermia (who are mortals) using a magic potion. Eventually, Lysander rather falls in love with Helena, whom he had no feelings for. It’s obvious that Lysander locks-down his love for Hermia and rather chases Helena as a result of spiritual influences of which they (Lysander , Hermia and Helena) were unaware.
Imagine Hermia judging, blaming or crucifying Lysander for betrayal. Would it be right and comfortable to do? *_At least for the fact that we don’t have absolute control of all the dimensions of life and for the reason that we might not have all the facts of happenings, it would be so unwise and dangerous to judge and blame people or even ourselves for anything that happens_*

Of course we can avoid and do away with people and energies for our peace and progress, but we should never blame them, because there might be several tendencies, spirits or forces that cause things to happen, not the person per se.

When we live a life devoid of Judging and Blaming, we realize that a new energy and momentum dawn on us to quickly reconfigure our tired soul and get back on our feet. We channel our strength to solutions rather than people or excuses. This will also fortify the spirit of forgiveness in us, which in turn, would set us free from the chains of vengeance.

Above all wisdom there is, let us Judge or blame no one, especially ourselves.

Mr. Hko (Writer and Coach)
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