*YOU CAN’T ESCAPE YOUR DEEDS*
A lot of people in this world are in their current dispositions or situations in life due to disappointment, betrayal, wickedness, or deceit they suffered or are suffering from the unthoughtful actions of others. What makes the pain excruciating, is that, those who cause such pains used to be the most loved and trusted. *_The Truth of the matter is that, the universe or the vast cosmos is not a straight line, such that actions keep going without reverse. It’s a circle. When a glass of dirty water is placed beside you in a circle and you run as far as possible away from the glass, you shall surely come under it somehow as the spinning of the circle takes place and it (the glass) surely will pour that nasty content on top of your head. That is same with our evil deeds towards others. We can’t just escape the “nasty consequence” of those deeds when it’s time_*
*if you admit deep down that you have caused someone real pains in life by your selfish actions you must know and do these:*
1. You are reading this _First Step_ because you admit you have seriously injured another with serious betrayal and dishonesty which has placed them in a very dire situation in life. To admit one’s fault is the first step to freedom.
2. Know that you need the spirit of endurance, rather than the spirit of freedom, because you are sure to experience some scorches of the fire you had set. You need endurance. Meditate and Pray for such endurance.
3. Know that the person you have put in such life-threatening mess may be lacking. Whatever they lack, pay back in full. If it’s emotional, then don’t relent until you see them happy once more; It’s time to pay back everything in full.
4. Seek for forgiveness. First of all from God, and then the victim. Forgive first yourself and earnestly seek for theirs. Don’t stop until they have forgiven you. Yes, don’t stop. There is always a way. Find it.
5. Don’t ever take people for granted. At least, “a stitch in time, saves nine” Don’t go about giving empty promises, betraying people, slandering them or peddling falsehood about others. Never play with people’s emotions. Completely Change that evil direction of Life.
*_If you are going through extremely hard times in life due to someone, please remember these:*
1. You should admit that you are liable to hurt others too and so try and focus on gathering the pieces together amd move on. Moving on means don’t keep on suffering that evil memory but live in the present and give genuine people the chance to prove their worth. You deserve to live.
2. Know that “We are all effects and consequences; no one causes anything”. Those who hurt us might have done that due to their weakness and situations. They might just be victims of circumstances.
3. Pray for both the spirit of endurance and freedom. You need them to thrive on.
4. Forgive them and never revenge. The revenge makes us like them, and their wickedness towards us become null and void in so many ways.
5. Don’t blame them or for anything if possible. Draw lessons from that and move on. Keep distance from those bales and never again be seen on their path. Learn hard lessons for the future.
The Journey of Life is so pathetic, such that, we want to sing, play, laugh and love throughout the ride. Even with that, we do those, with pains throughout. Hence, we never want to hurt another for no reason! Be extra mindful of how you treat anyone. Remember, you are just a tiny insignificant speck in the space of the entire cosmos and you shall extinguish quickly by hurting others. Let love and sincerity be our crest for life.
Mr. Hko (Writer and Coach)
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