“A village couple sat under a big fig tree one fine afternoon, chattering at the comfort of their home. The woman said, ” we seriously need a househelp and preferably a male.” The man, with a long face replied, ” That’s ridiculous, what happened to all those female househelps!? “. The argument went on and on and it turned into a serious banter, even resulting in breaking of ribs. There was a subsequent separation.
From the incident above, we realize that all what each is saying are just suggestions, ideas or hypothesis. Non of the ideas has taken place yet. Why then should there be bloodshed of an event which has not taken place? This is true about Fears and Insecurity. Most often than not, most of our misery, anger, agitations and anxieties are just an illusion and a part of our brains; they are not the reality. We usually suffer what has happened already or what is possible to happen tomorrow, with no concrete evidence of those things happening. We should learn to enjoy life fully in the present moment. The couple (especially the man) could have simply applied wisdom, kept quiet and even do his bidding at the end of the day, without angrily involving in “the back and forth” with the wife. As a man, “keep quiet and do anyway, rather than argue”.
Most of our problems are just imaginations. If we could take charge of our imagination (memory) we would realize that all those negative tendencies, that divide families and empires are just mere figments of one’s imagination.”
Mr. Hko (Writer and Coach)
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