The whole earth (planet) rotates each micro second, but in silence and calmness so we don’t feel its rage or even love. This realization tells us that you need not to always “boil to defence” in order to settle differences, please your ego or comprehend complex situations. Always be calm and Silent, and operate maturely anyway.
In fact, being calm about everything allows your mind to find solutions. Calmness is also a state of trust and solidarity. Instead of overthinking and overreacting, you just surrender for that moment and allow yourself to receive guidance for what doesn’t make sense. Don’t just react to every situation. ‘Win with the rhetorics of calmness.’ Shouting during arguments and heated moments denotes lack of confidence, insecurity and immaturity Those who always react or overreact to unpleasantness, at home, workplace or anywhere they might be, usually find themselves feeling regrets of what they say or do. The human body is a machine, and just like every machine, it can “blow up” or spark fire when overheated with an overly anxious, troubled or agitated mind. It always needs to be cooled (calmed) down. Calmness is not only essential with unpleasantness; it is needed even with pleasantness. Imagine you receive a great present and your whole body (physical, mental and emotional) shakes and overreacts – the results could be unfortunate and even disastrous! You either destroy the present, by force-opening or misuse due to the fact that, your whole reasoning and perceptive powers were busy “jumping and galloping” to unveil and use the present instead of calmly and painstakingly reading the manual or instructions to the use of that present. Isn’t it? Yes. No matter how famished you may be, you still have to take mosel of food and soup carefully and calmly to avoid choking and possible embarrassment. So, Always be calm in all situations (pleasant and unpleasantness)
Also, just like overheating, that may destroy a machine, uncontrolled anger may overwork the body, and break its reasoning and love defenses. So many homes and relationships have been wrecked, and reputations stained due to the inability of a person to remain calm, no matter the news, temptation, provocation or confrontation. It is only by calmness, one finds the best and mature reply or approach to every situation. Calmness is just like paying rapt attention and listening carefully to understand the spirit and nitty-gritties of situations Calmness and Silence are intertwined and are very powerful tools of life. Silence is not necessarily the absence of words. But, instead of saying something at length, try using just a word or two to say it and don’t go further. With that, you master the art of Silence using “simple economy of words” approach. When one is Calm and Silent, they become spiritual. They assess situations tactfully before they judge or react. They say what is necessary at needed times to avoid regrets. In so doing, they protect dear relationships and their reputation.
Be Calm and Silent for a day; a two, a week; a two, and you would marvel at how enlightened you become. If you do that, it just implies that, you have burnt all possible toxic recations deep within you and so nothing regrettable is left to spew – You become really enlightened and balanced!
Calmness and Silence are keys to effective relationship and improved personality.
Mr. Hko (Writer and Coach)
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