Effective Dating and Cohabitation Tips
Do people normally get tired of you and even wish they never met you?
Sometimes our demeanour and self disposition may turn potential “dates” and friends away from us making us lonely all the time. These are Some unwritten rules of everyday life (Dating and other Interpersonal Relationships)
- Always be on time to appointments.
-Do not promise anything to impress and create an excuse. - Endeavor not to be apologetic (always apologising) all the time. Learn to do the right thing at all times to prevent “I’m sorry” in your life.
- Never look at dates (female) on the forehead, on the breast or away. Always look at people in the eyes during conversations. This shows sincerity and trust.
- Never call anyone more than two times. Wait until some time then you call again.
-Never discuss childbirth or your children with those around who have none.
-Learn to speak in a soft tone at all times. If you naturally have a thick (deep) voice, make conscious efforts to talk gently and mildly.
-Do not answer all questions at all times. Sometimes keep silent. - Don’t be the hub of all knowledge. When in the midst of potential friends or dates, play innocence or ignorance sometimes.
-Never put the milk back in the fridge with just one drop left.
-When you’re going to someone’s house for dinner or a party show up a few minutes late.
-Never ask someone if they’re pregnant.
-No talking at the urinal.
-If someone holds the door open for you, don’t leave them hanging there if there are more people coming.
-If an awkward silence happens, don’t point it out.
-Replace the toilet paper when it runs out.
-If someone shows you a picture on their phone, don’t swipe.
-Don’t make small talk in the lift.
-There’s no need to be rude to waiters.
-Hand people money, don’t put it down on the counter.
-If you’re sharing a hotel room, it’s common decency not to stink up the bathroom.
-If you’re going to complain on social media, be specific.
-When someone else is eating something, don’t be rude about it. - Walk gently and. People are more critical about body gestures than our utterances.
- Do not make not while chewing or eating and never talk during eating.
- Give respect to the elderly and never exchange words with them. Allow them to do the talking while you listen, even if you are right.
- Be outspoken but circumspect in your deliveries (talk)
- Desist from long argument and winning them. Try to “understand” those around you, so they feel “comfortable” around you.
Have a blessed life. - Mr Hko –
The Life - Mr. Hko 