MEN – DO NOT TELL HER THESE 10 THINGS!

Words once spoken are very difficult to take back. No matter how you love your woman, you should never divulge to here these things. They could ruin everything because women are very sensitive and do not particularly forget what you tell them. The following are 10 things you should never tell your woman.

1. Don’t tell her how many women you have been with in the past: This is a very sensitive part which you need to avoid especially if you have been with a number of women in the past, keep the details to yourself if really you want to build the trust between the both of you. You can tell her you had an Ex, but never tell her the total number of women because it will make her feel uncomfortable thinking she may also be among the numbers soon.
2. Never Tell her about Your Family’s Deep Secrets: Family Secrets should always remain among the Family Members, because there are some secrets that you may utter and one day out of quarrels, she may use it against you, so you need to keep your family deep secrets intact. Don’t discuss what a family member has indulged in, except it’s something good.
3. Make Sure Not to tell her any bad thing Your family may have said about her: Your family are the only people that can tell you the wrongs of your partner, so if you open up telling her what your family members said about her which are not good, it will certainly hurt her, and also will raise hatred from her towards your family, because she would see them as people against her.
4. Do Not Tell Her the bad things your friends said about her in other to correct her: Many a time, men choose to tell their lover what their friends said about her in their discussions, thinking it will help correct the woman. But sincerely it won’t, rather will make her dislike those your friends.
5. Do Not Tell her deep things or Secrets about Your Past relationship: Every relationship has secrets that are meant to die between you both, so don’t think because that relationship is over, you can open up to the new lover. It’s totally wrong because one day, she may use it against you out of annoyance. Only reveal past secrets of relationships that might creep into your current affair with your wife. Example you can’t hide a child you bore out of wedlock from your woman, and other serious things that transpired.
6. Do not ever compare her with another woman: Comparison kills a lot in a relationship, always accept your love as she is and that alone will make her love you more. Even when watching movies, never make comparison of her with characters on the screen, or stare the characters too much.
7. Do Not Tell Her You want to give money to your family: Money is always a problem in some relationship, the very moment you tell your love you want to send certain amount of money to your family or a family member, then her unnecessary needs will raise up also to collect money from you and if you refuse, then it becomes a problem, because she will assume you value your family more than her.
8. Do Not Tell Her You will Train Her in School, especially when you are not married to her: This aspect has really been a major problem, you may so much love her and want to train her, do it yourself via helping, because you don’t know how the relationship may end, maybe at some point she may lose feelings for you, but due to the fact you are sponsoring her education, she may decide to stay untill she is done, then she will quickly walk out, then you are at a big lost.
9. Do Not Tell Her Another Woman’s Food Tastes Better than Hers: You should know that this hurts a lot, so avoid it so your relationship could continue perfectly.
10. Do Not tell a woman You can’t do without Her: This aspect may be confusing but, it’s the pure truth, telling a woman you can’t do without her makes her feel she can misbehave and because you can’t do without her, you will keep running back to her, in some cases it makes the woman feel she can control the man anyhow she wants.

So if you really want to maintain your relationship, avoid telling a woman the above 10 things, no matter how much you are inloved with her.

Mr. Hko (Grammarian, Counselor)